Sessions for Men

My sessions for men are meditations on sensuality, connection, intimacy and pleasure. These sessions are for men who want to learn to be more authentic and present.  My intention is to be a guide for those who wish to embark on a healing and spiritual path. I seek to aid those who desire to be become better intimate partners by becoming more intimate with themselves. I am happy to work on any issues one might have with erection, arousal, ejaculation, or energetic blocks in the body…I am open to comforting the lonely, bereaved, traumatized, or simply stressed-out. I am also happy to work on techniques toward prolonging arousal and using arousal as a source healing energy. Or simply to serve as your muse and inspiration.

With male clients, I am most happy serving as reflection to aid in a deeper understanding/healing of your relationships to women and to yourself as a man.

Because I believe that the true tantric energies cannot be invoked without a reciprocal flow of male/female energies, some of these sessions may involve a sharing touch and mutual embrace. But please be advised that tantra is about authenticity and connection – consequently, I cannot promise any particular thing will occur. These sessions are about letting go, surrendering to the moment. I can promise that I will be extremely present and supportive. It is a sensual and spiritual journey. A pas de deux on the path to healing…

Consideration

As I work more and more with energy, I have come to understand money —just like our bodies— as a manifestation of energy and a mutual understanding that fuels our existence. I have come to think of money from you to me as gifts or donations, as reciprocal care and an homage to the feminine. You are gifting to me so I can take care of my physical needs, show up in full radiant health, and be present for you. You are not contracting with me for anything other than my time, availability, and the sharing of my knowledge. Because I want to make my teachings widely available, I offer most of my sessions on a sliding scale basis. You may gift what you feel you can afford withing my scale. At my discretion, I may offer some discounts off the suggested donation to students, the disabled, and people in vital, yet modestly paid service positions.

Incentives and packages:

  • 15% off a 3 session package, must be redeemed within 90 days

  • 10% off a follow-up session booked within 60 days

  • A year long membership to SoulPleasures is extended to clients who book at least 3 sessions within 6 months. To learn what membership includes please visit here.

I currently offer four different kinds of experiences to male seekers.

Bodywork Sessions

These sessions are what you think of when you hear the phrases: sensual massage, or sensual healing. They draw upon my experience in therapeutic massage, tantra, and in some cases, BDSM. These sessions are hands-on healing and not generally instructive. The modalities I can use in these sessions include Tantra Touch, Deep Tissue Massage, Swedish Massage, Sensual Touch, Energetic Touch, and Sensual BDSM.

I offer six types of bodywork session:

  • Temple Tune-up (70 min) $240-$260

  • Touch of Tantra (1.5 hours) $280-$360

  • Athlete’s Opener (1.5 hours) $280-$360

  • Sensual Tie & Tease (1.5 hours) $300-$380

  • Athlete’s Opener/Touch of Tantra (2 hours) $380-$480

  • Athlete’s Opener/Tie& Tease (2 hours) $400-$500

Please note: packages and incentives are available for frequent visitors (see above).

Please note: The suggested donations are for incall in my home cities of Asheville and Chapel Hill. I may add an additional 10-20% to the suggested donation when I am visiting an expensive location such as NYC.

Please inquire here for more information.

Tantra Sessions

These sessions are for men who wish to experience new ways of existing in their bodies, their sensuality, and who desire to have deeply connecting experiences. These sessions are experiential, interactive, and somewhat instructional. They may include massage as well as other types of modalities and practices. Through practice, I guide you to more fully connect with yourself, your physicality, your life force energy, and your partner.

I offer three levels of tantra training sessions:

Tantra Level I:

  • 1.5 hours $340-$460

Tantra Level II:

  • 2 hours $500-$700

  • 3 hours $740-$1000

  • 4-5 hours $1000-$1300

Tantra Level III: (advanced students only)

  • $450/hr (two hour minimum)

  • monthly sponsorship rates available

Please note: packages and incentives are available for frequent visitors (see above).

Please note: The suggested donations are for incall in my home cities of Asheville and Chapel Hill. I may add an additional 10-20% to the suggested donation when I am visiting an expensive location such as NYC.

Please inquire here for more information.

Intimacy Coaching Sessions

I consider these sessions the bulk of my practice and often recommend them to male students who desire to learn to be a better lover and expand their understanding of their relationship to the feminine. Please note: I no longer offer intimacy coaching for men as one-off sessions; they must be taken as part of a series. These trainings are for men who are ready to bring about a lasting change in their lives. They are ideal for men who are struggling and who wish to improve their lives or for men who wish to be better men and lovers of women.

The series can be completed as either:

  • Leisurely: Six 2 hour sessions

  • Accelerated: Three 4 hour sessions

The fee for the series is $3000. (I am open to payment in installments, at a 10 percent increase.)

I am available for distant travel for the accelerated series.

For more information about the series. please see HOW TO BE A BETTER LOVER.

If you wish to schedule a consultation, please inquire here.

Dark Tantra: Shadow Work

Some of us find our deepest healing and catharsis in the recesses of the shadow. I am completely accepting, non-judgemental, and loving of these zones. I understand the need to bring the shadow to light. I would be honored to be your guide and tantric domina. As such, I perform sessions that involve conscious sensual domination, restraint, impact play, role play and other elements of dark tantra.  These sessions are individually designed (depending on what you'd like to explore and retrieve.) See for kinsters. 


Social Time and Travel Time

  • Social Time (dining and other fun activities)

    $100/hr

  • Car Travel up to 3 hours round trip (2 hour minimum session)

    $100/hr plus accommodation

  • Car Travel up to 5 hours round trip (3 hour minimum session)

    $100/hr plus accommodation and meals

  • Air Travel up to 8 hours round trip (4 hour minimum session)

    $100/hr plus accommodation, airfare, and meals